Dr Lauren Fisher, GP and mum—responsive baby sleep & breastfeeding support.

About Dr Lauren Fisher

Sleep support that works with your baby—not against them

Gentle, evidence-based baby sleep & breastfeeding support—so you can get more rest without cry-it-out

I’m a GP and mum who helps you get more rest—without leaving your baby to cry or compromising breastfeeding.

RNZCGP Registrar (General Practice)

MCNZ registered doctor

Trained in Neuroprotective Developmental Care.

Advanced Training in Breastfeeding Medicine (IABLE)

If you’re here, you’re probably exhausted—and wondering what you’re missing

You’ve tried the advice.
You’re doing everything you can.
And yet… sleep still feels harder than it should.

You might even be wondering… what am I doing wrong?

Why this feels so confusing

You’re told to follow your baby’s cues… but also stick to routines
You’re encouraged to respond… but warned you’re creating “bad habits”
You’re doing everything you can—and still ending up more exhausted

👉 This isn’t your fault. The advice is conflicting.

I didn’t expect it to feel this hard

As a doctor, I thought I would understand sleep.

But when I became a mum, I found myself in that same cycle—
exhausted, overwhelmed, and questioning everything.

I was trying to do the “right” things.
Following the advice.
Doing everything I could to support my baby.

And yet… it didn’t seem to work.

The advice I was given didn’t fit my baby.
And it didn’t sit right with me either.

I felt torn between:

  • responding to my baby

  • and being told I was creating “bad habits”

Even with my medical background, I found myself second-guessing what I was doing.

Then things started to make sense

I went back to the science—looking at infant sleep through the lens of biology, development, and breastfeeding.

So much of the advice I’d been given:

  • didn’t reflect how babies actually sleep

  • conflicted with responsive care

  • and left parents feeling like they were the problem

When in reality—the approach was.

There was a different way

As I started supporting my baby in a way that aligned with their biology…
things became calmer. More predictable. More manageable.

Not perfect.
But finally—it made sense.

This is why I do this work

Now, I help parents understand their baby’s sleep—
so they can stop second-guessing and start feeling more confident.

Because you shouldn’t have to choose between:

  • more sleep

  • and responding to your baby

You can have both—with the right support.

When I became a mum, I was overwhelmed by conflicting advice and the pressure to choose between sleep and responsiveness. It didn’t sit right.

I returned to infant biology and my medical training, dove deep into neuroprotective developmental care and breastfeeding medicine, and found a calmer, kinder way. Now my work is helping parents like you get more rest with responsive, evidence‑based support that protects your bond.

This is why things haven’t been working

Most sleep advice:

  • ignores how infant sleep actually works

  • asks you to override your instincts

  • and leaves you feeling like you’re the problem

👉 This isn’t your fault.

When you’re exhausted and unsure what to trust, the right support matters

  • GP‑led and responsive: I never ask you to leave your baby to cry. We follow infant biology and your values.

  • Breastfeeding‑friendly by design: No pressure to night wean—ever.

  • Evidence‑based training: Neuroprotective Developmental Care (NDC) and breastfeeding medicine (IABLE), alongside current general practice. Ongoing education among other breastfeeding medicine doctors from around the world.

How my support works

  1. Share your goals — sleep, feeding, settling, and what matters to you.

  2. We build a gentle plan — flexible steps that fit your baby’s cues and your family rhythm.

  3. You feel calmer — with clear guidance and ongoing support so you’re never guessing alone.

“This is not “sleep training”. It’s responsive care that protects connection while making nights more manageable.”

Imagine feeling calmer at bedtime… and more confident in how you’re supporting your baby.

You don’t have to figure this out on your own

What you can expect working with me

Responsive first:

Protect connection; no rigid routines that fight biology.

Respect for your relationship:

Your baby’s cues lead the way.

Breastfeeding-compatible:

Strategies that support milk supply, comfort, and your goals.

Simple steps for messy days:

Realistic for tired brains.

Credentials & affiliations

Training evolves—families get the latest, evidence-based guidance.

Questions people often ask

Is this “sleep training”?
No. I won’t ask you to leave your baby to cry. We use responsive steps that respect biology and your bond.

Will this work if I’m breastfeeding?
Yes. My guidance is breastfeeding‑friendly by design and tailored to your goals.

What if my baby is different?
Perfect. We start with your baby’s cues and your values, not a rigid schedule.

If you’re on the fence, that makes sense. Your baby is unique, and you care deeply. I’ll meet you where you are—with gentle, evidence‑based support that helps you find more rest and confidence.

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